Naurore and Naviqiri Village (August 3rd – 17th)
The bay of Naurore was dotted with locals fishing with hand lines from bamboo rafts. We had barely set the anchor when a couple of these bamboo rafts started making their way towards us. “BULA! BULA!”, yelled out two women from one of the rafts as they neared Billabong. “BULA!”, we smiled back. As the raft bumped up against our transom step one of the ladies (Sio) hopped aboard. While we think the Fijian’s openness and sharing is terrific, it is sometimes hard for us to get used to this “open door policy”. We have to remind ourselves that in their culture visiting one another, entering other’s homes, does not always require an invitation (or knocking), people come and go as they please. It’s something that we’d have to adjust to over the next two weeks in Naviqiri. We helped Sera (the other lady) tie up the raft and come aboard. A few minutes later another bamboo raft appeared and Luke joined us as well. I was beginning to think it was going to be a downright party when I noticed a few more rafts paddling towards Billabong, but our guests yelled out a few words in Fijian and the rafts headed for Shadowfax instead. Sio was one of the more pushy and grabby Fijians we’ve met; just picking up anything and everything in the cockpit and eventually putting on Chris’s reef walkers (we're pretty sure she would've walked away with them if we hadn't said something when she left!).
Luke didn’t seem to speak much English but had a terrific (mostly toothless) smile and seemed to just enjoy hanging in the cockpit. Sera was more reserved but quite curious about us. She asked all kinds of questions about our boat, where we’d been in Fiji, and especially about Chris and I and our relationship. In most of the South Pacific Islands that we have visited, including Fiji, we’ve found it easier to just let people assume we’re married … this fits in better with some of the conservative cultures and saves us from any lengthy explanations. However, we didn’t really go out of the way to tell people this, we just didn’t correct people when they referred to our husband or wife. Sera however was so curious that it was becoming difficult to be sly. Hating to lie, I tried a number of avoidance tactics; when she asked me how long Chris and I had been married, I replied, “Oh, Chris and I have been together for 3 years.” When she asked when [date] we got married, I ignored the question and asked, “When did you get married?”. We went round about like this for a few more minutes before I finally caved and starting making stuff up.
At this point Chris was forward with our other two guests, so I was talking loudly to ensure we’d be on the same page should he be asked anything later on. By the time Sera was finished with me, we had married in Nov 2002, at a lovely beach ceremony with all our friends and family. I was lucky that she didn’t ask for photos!!! I was getting some weird side glances from Chris as he was talking to Sio & Luke (and overhearing me), but he was smart enough not to question anything. I learned that Sera had been married for nine years, and while she wants children has yet to have any (not by choice). Hearing this and knowing what children mean in the Fijian culture my heart went out to her.
We had a good visit with our new friends before they headed out for more fishing and we cleaned up for our Sevusevu with the chief.
When we first came ashore just outside the village things seemed a bit dicey. A young man was standing on the beach watching us approach. uncharacteristic to Fijians, he was not smiling or yelling out Bula. As the four of us clamored out of the dinghy and cheerfully said BULA, he still didn’t smile or talk.
Turaga ni Koro: The village spokesman. Unlike the chief (who inherits the position), the Turaga ni Koro is voted into position by the villagers. Typically, any business with the chief is conducted through or in coordination with the spokesman (i.e. it would be inappropriate for us to just show up at the chief's house without the Turaga ni Koro or someone of equivalent standing).
And he still said nothing when we asked if he knew where the Turaga ni Koro lived. Uh oh we thought, what kind of village is this? We weren’t to sure what to do, a visitor should not just enter the village on their own, they should be guided/escorted, at least until the Sevusevu has been accepted. Down the beach a bit were three young men, so not having much luck with our current local, we yelled out to them and asked if they knew where the Turaga ni Koro was. One of them finally came forward and said he would lead us to him. Phew! Of course by now we were completely confused about what we would find in the village; on one hand we had a great greeting from the fishermen, but on the other hand, these young men didn’t seem to really want anything to do with us. Well, we later discovered that the first young man, Sakioso, was mentally slow and quite shy ... basically he didn't know what to make of these white people coming ashore! By the end of our visit he would be talking up a storm (mostly in Fijian) and smiling whenever we came near. The other three young men were actually from a different village, and the Turaga ni Koro was away from the village, so these young men weren't sure where to take us! It all made sense afterwards, but sure was awkward in the moment!
Any feelings of doubt were swept away the minute we entered the village. It was truly a mob scene. Everyone came out to greet us and within seconds we were surrounded. Hands were thrust, names exchanged, and smiles shared. I swear I actually saw a few women running down the path to meet us! You’d be shaking one hand while another person tapped you on your right shoulder, just as you turned to shake their hand, someone else would tap your left shoulder, as so it went. It seemed like it took hours just to walk a few feet. We felt famous, like rock stars, surrounded by people who just wanted a glimpse of us, and if lucky an autograph (or in this case a hand shake). It is so hard to comprehend, because who are we to warrant so much attention? … I mean really, we’re nobody, just a couple of white people on “vacation”. But in these out of the way places we are unique, we are different, we are truly from another world – they are honored that we would want to visit their village, their home, of all places. And so we moved along, until we were ushered into one of the homes. Even has we were sitting people streamed in to present their hands to us and introduce themselves. Others gathered at the doorway to watch. Chris & Karl started to put their yaqona out, when I whispered to Chris, “so who’s the chief?”. He didn’t know. Neither did Karl or Julie. Finally Chris asked, and that’s when we learned that this wasn’t the chief’s house, it was just a grog party … it didn’t matter that they’d just met us, we were invited! “We, ‘er, have to go to the chief’s house” we said. “Stay and have some grog”, they told us. But when we asked if that was ‘allowed’ before we had done our Sevusevu, they promptly nominated someone to lead us to the chief’s house, making us promise we'd come back afterwards.
The chief isn’t able to get out of bed much due to severe arthritis in his knees. After shaking hands and introductions we sat on the floor while he propped himself up in his bed. He performed the chants/prayers for the yaqona and introduced us to Elia who then took us on a tour of the village. If we had missed anyone on the way into the village, we met them now. The village has 41 houses, although somewhere between 5 – 10 of those houses are not currently lived in (their owners typically residing/working in Labasa or Suva). After our tour we returned to the grog party which was taking place in Seraia’s house. Not that we like grog much, but a promise is a promise. We donated some pre-ground Waka (kava) to the cause and spent over an hour kicking it on the floor with a huge group of people.
The next morning (Thursday) we were surprised when a few of the villagers arrived at Billabong to check us & the boat out. They excitedly came aboard and stayed, visiting for a couple of hours. After their visit we went ashore with Shadowfax and met up with Sera and Seraia who guided us on walk. The scenery was beautiful and we enjoyed getting to know our ‘guides’. Along the way we ran into the Turaga ni Koro, who, as it turns out, is Sera’s brother. It is interesting to get to know the family relations within the village, you soon discover that although not obvious, there is a definite pecking order. Everyone appears to help anyone, and on the whole the village runs as a terrific sharing community, but it is not without ‘political’ undercurrents. After our walk, which took us up where we could view the neighboring bays and then around past the school, we relaxed under a huge tree, joined by other locals. Chris excitedly waiting for the touch Rugby game to start (which they play every afternoon around four).
Afternoon play time became a daily must for us. It was the easiest place to relax and goof off with the locals, especially the children. No matter how sore or run down Chris played touch rugby with the men everyday. In between taking video and pictures, I played games with the children. Learning a few of their games, as well as teaching them some of our own. During one of the rugby games I taught a few of the kids a fight song (Lean to left, lean to the right, stand up, sit down, fight-fight-fight) and The Wave. The wave was especially interesting, because while they did what I told them, I could tell they didn’t get it! I tried to explain to one of the older children (who spoke better English), but, …. well you can just imagine how silly & pointless the wave must seem, especially to someone who hasn’t every seen or been to a large scale sporting event! We also brought in a Frisbee, which everyone from the two year olds to the fifty year olds tossed around. Chris would get them laughing with his behind the back and under the leg throws. The children loved when he’d tell them to “go long” … even after two weeks they never ran far enough. A few of the men would attempt a long throw after seeing Chris, getting laughs all around when the Frisbee went straight into the dirt! By our second week there they had also gotten out a volleyball net which they hoisted between two wooden branches stuck in the ground. They weren’t big on form, but it was huge amounts of fun and they were great at keeping a volley going. Saturday’s were especially fun because all the local children who boarded at the nearby school came home for the weekend. It was hard to keep up with all the activity, we’d return to the boat after dark, hot, dirty and exhausted … but it in our two weeks at Naviqiri we didn’t miss a single afternoon!
During our walk with Sera & Seraia, the school headmaster (principal) had invited us back on Friday. So Friday morning, escorted by Sera and two younger children, we headed out for the school. Although this school was also a boarding school, it was much smaller than Cawaro’s. They gathered all the children in one room, and we introduced ourselves … giving the same type of spill that we had in Cawaro. We got the same sort of questions from the children, although we were once again caught of guard by one little boy’s question. He asked, “Our you still fighting with Iraq?”. Living on boats, usually in the middle of nowhere, we aren’t up-to-date on current events, and so Chris responded, “You tell me, are we?” We were even more surprised when a bit later, after one of the children had asked us what religion we were, the teacher mentioned that he was Muslim, and then said, “You must hate all Muslims.” It baffles me that he could think that … even more so it saddens me, because America (as a whole) does seem to find a way to make a lot of things racial. I don’t get it, and we strongly explained that no, we don’t hate all Muslims or any Muslims, we can only blame the specific people for their acts, not an entire culture or religion.
After class, our host (the Muslim teacher), Kamal, and his wife, Rafiza, invited us over to their house for refreshments. They live in a temporary house provided by the school (their ‘real’ home is in Labasa) with their two year old daughter (Zeenia) and Kamal's mother (Kariman). A few days later we also had dinner at their house, with his sister & her two children in attendance. When we arrived, hundred’s of curious eyes peered out at us from the dorms, and as we sat in Kamal's house we could see a number of children gathered outside looking in, trying to get a glimpse of the Palagi’s! Fijian Indians make up over 40% of Fiji’s population, and until dinner with Kamal & his family, we had not had much of a chance to learn about some of the different beliefs and traditions of the Indian population. It was an intriguing new experience for us. Apparently Zeenia likes to watch the video of her parent's wedding, and so we too watched along, learning quite a bit about arranged Muslim weddings. As both Kamal & Rafiza are teachers, we also talked a lot about the education system and the skill levels of the children. And we were thrilled when they served us tasty Indian dishes … Curry & Roti’s … it doesn’t get any better than that!
We had quite a few interesting eating experiences in the village. It seemed that every time we turned around someone was offering us something to eat or drink. Tea is HUGE in Fiji. Typically black tea, with lots and lots of sugar. It takes a bit of getting used to; to drink a steaming hot cup of liquid when you are already sweating profusely! We actually preferred the lemon leaf tea, which was a bit ironic since they would apologize to us for only serving the lemon leaf tea whenever they were out of black tea. Since the black tea cost money, it is considered the fancier and more appropriate tea, especially for white guests. I came in early enough one morning to watch Grandma & Little Freddie eating breakfast … on the menu was cooked rice drowned in tea – eaten like a bowl of cereal. They also love breaking up breakfast crackers (a plain thick white cracker) into their cup of tea.
Cooked taro leaves served in coconut milk or mixed with a can of tuna is also popular. With exception that it is a bit soggy, it is probably one of the easiest things to get down (from a Palagi's point of view). When Sera served us lunch of taro mixed with tuna and cassava, we felt a twinge a guilt knowing that she had purchased the tuna especially for us. In most villages they live mainly off of what they can grow or catch, spending little or no money. Many of the villagers do not work on a regular basis, but rather a day here and there as needed to make a few dollars. For a full days work, the average Fijian makes about $10 F a day (that’s about $6.00 US)! And still, they continue to give, no matter how little they might have.
Sunday lunch (after church) is a big event as well. This is probably their fanciest meal of the week, and when they are most likely to use more valued food products (like fish or store bought items). You will always be invited for a Sunday meal at someone’s home. Of course cassava and taro leaves are still the main staples, but you are also likely to get fresh fish or octopus cooked in coconut milk. I wasn’t brave enough to go for the octopus, it just looked to much like … well, like an octopus! Chris did, and found it a bit chewy. It was really quite funny when he was trying to get some down and looked over and saw a little boy sucking down octopus tentacles just like spaghetti. The little boy had a couple of tentacles, with suction cups and all, hanging out of his mouth and slapping against his cheeks as he sucked them in. At any minute you expected the suction cups to adhere to his cheeks!
It was during one of these Sunday lunches that we discovered cassava is best smothered in lime juice and salt, although still far from good! It was also when we learned that the plate you are given (usually there is a dinner sized plate, along with a bowl) is used just for cassava (everything else goes into the bowl). Our plates looked a little silly with the measly amount of cassava we usually took. The Fijian’s on the other hand loaded their plates full with mounds of cassava. One afternoon even the preacher made fun of us, when he said, showing us two of his fingers, “Palogi’s think this is enough cassava!”.
With all the food that was being handed out, we wanted to give something back. One Saturday I spent the morning making papaya cakes (my favorite use of papaya) with lemon frosting. We cut the cakes into small pieces and took it, along with lollies into the village. We created quite the mob scene once word got around. I think we managed to give every adult some cake, and every child a lollie pop! We were sure popular after that! The following Saturday, Chris noticed all the villagers out fishing on their bamboo rafts. He hopped in the dinghy to fish as well. He caught a large Wahoo (a really good fish), and after cleaning it, gave a piece to everyone who was out fishing, as well as a piece to the Chief & Minister. We also had Fred & Sera out to our boat for dinner. I served leftover Chinese Chicken Salad along with Papaya Curry w/ rice. I guess it was a big hit because Sera later told her sister that the food was “like in the magazines”! Fred really like the flavored tea I served after dinner, and so before we departed I left them with a few bags of their own.
And we can’t forget about Koko. The first (and probably last) live chicken that I bought! On our first Sunday in Naviqiri we went with the Minister into a nearby settlement for church & lunch. Later, when we were sitting around (the men and some women drinking grog), we learned that one of the ladies sold chickens ($10). Not having a freezer, we hadn’t had fresh meat in some time, so chicken was sounding pretty good. Julie (Shadowfax) and I spent a good deal of time ensuring that I would be no part of the killing or cleaning of the chicken. That the chicken would be ‘delivered’ fully dead, with no head, feet, feathers, or guts. No problem. Since we didn’t want to eat the chicken right away, and since the settlement was a bit of a drive from Naviqiri, Seraia said she would take care of the chicken in Naviqiri until we were ready for it. The lady went off to fetch the chicken and a few minutes later she called over to me as she lifted a (live) hen up and then threw it into the back of the truck. When it came time for us to leave, there was this hen, sitting in the middle of the back of the truck, staring out at us; and boy did she looked pissed! Eight of us crawled into the back along with the chicken for the bumpy ride back. The poor thing was bouncing and sliding all over the place! At some point along the way I decided I needed to name it (I don’t know why). I thought I was being clever when I named it Koko. I was thinking that the Fijian word for food was kokona, however I realized a bit later that food is really kakana … but naming my chicken Kaka just didn’t sound good, so we stayed with Koko. The locals got a kick out of the Palagi’s and their chicken Koko. I’m quite sure they don’t bother naming their chickens! About four days later I decided we were ready for Koko. Chris was walking to Sera’s house to pick up his shoes for rugby when he past Koko stealing coconut from between the paws of a dog. “Koko?” he asked Seraia, who was standing nearby. “Io” (yes), she said. Just a few minutes later he is walking back to the rugby field when he sees Seraia holding a headless chicken by its legs dunking it in and out of boiling water. “Uh, Koko?” he asked. “Io.” The next day, more than one person in the village asked me, “How was Koko?”. I’m sure they were thinking, crazy chicken-naming Palagi! Koko did spark an interesting conversation between Sera and I, as I tried to explain that the majority of Americans did not grow their own food, that we had huge grocery markets where we purchased everything from vegetables and fruits to meats. And because of this I had never owned, killed, or cleaned a chicken, rather I had always purchased them from a store. She found this quite interesting.
In addition to all the food, there was a lot of grog (kava). It seemed every time we walked passed a house we heard, "Come in, Come in ... have a bowl ... just one bowl!". It is so hard to say no to them, even if grog tastes like dirty water! Some of the grog parties were more formal, served in celebration or as part of an event or even fundraisers. Other times, it was enjoyed much as one might enjoy a cold beer at the end of a working day ... only it seemed many of the villagers partook in grog at any hour.
Eating all this food, we really needed some exercise! Besides our first walk with Sera & Sereia, we went for two other significant hikes. One was up to a point known as Monkey Face. Most of the walk was along a dry dirt (hot) road. The walk took us to the fields where the locals were planting pine trees. As we neared we could hear them calling out to us; “Hey … Hey!”. An extremely steep incline took us up to a point that offered outstanding views and looked over the work the locals were doing. It took about one minute before all the workers came up to say hi. Many of the workers were from the neighboring village, but some were also from Naviqiri. Although you’d think we’d be getting used to it, we were amazed that these people would want to meet us, that they would come out and greet us. We once again got that crazy Palagi look when we turned down their offer for a ride back to the village, explaining that we wanted to enjoy the view and get some exercise. After all, they pretty much get the view everyday, and between working the fields and walking everywhere, they get plenty of exercise … who would want to walk just to walk?
The following day Sera and Freddie took us in the opposite direction to Sera’s brother’s bush house. A small thatched hut he uses when he’s working his land. More terrific views, and wonderful company. We could spend days exploring the lands surrounding Naviqiri!
Work, Crafts, and Culture
When we weren’t hiking, playing, or eating, we tried to further ingrain ourselves into their culture by spending time in the village, doing whatever the locals were doing, or just hanging out.
Chris spent part of a day helping some of the men build a traditional Fijian house. Unfortunately he pulled his back doing so, but he didn’t seem to mind – he was just happy that he could help out. The men he helped were quite surprised when Chris showed up, picked up a shovel and starting digging! And they were thrilled when I came by to take everyone’s picture. When the house was finished, they made sure to find Chris and tell him to come look.
He spent another morning taking a few of the locals out fishing in the dinghy (he was known as quite the fisherman after his wahoo catch). Unfortunately we were almost out of fuel so he couldn’t fish too long, but they were able to catch a couple of decent sized fish and everyone came away smiling.
I’m sure Chris stirred up some waves when he came in with me to do laundry. Naviqiri has a really good water source, so we asked permission to bring in some of our savasava (washing). Whenever we have a few huge piles (such was the case) Chris helps me, usually scrubbing or wringing. We set ourselves up near the tap, and the women’s jaws just about hit the floor when Chris actually started scrubbing laundry. A couple of women kept trying to offer to help and a few tried to actually pull Chris away from the laundry. But we stuck to our guns and soon a few of the women were actually pointing out Chris to some of the men, and later told me, “Yes, I think it’s good the men help with laundry!” In typical Fijian fashion, no matter how much we said no we couldn’t keep them from helping us, pretty soon Sera just ignored me and sat down and started scrubbing. I’m not complaining, with their help it was one of the fastest hand washings I’ve ever done!
I spent one evening helping a group of women process voivoi. After Pandanus leaves (a tree that reminds me of something from a Dr. Seuss book) are stripped of any spiny edges and dried, they are rolled and pounded (to help make them flat and flexible). These dried leaves are known as voivoi. One group of women take the long pieces of voivoi, and tightly wrap them around their hands. These are thrown into a pile where another group of women unroll them, and bundle a bunch of them together. The bundles are then pounded with a heavy club. They spend hours doing this in order to get enough material for basket & mat weaving. Within the first thirty minutes of rolling voivoi (my job), my hands were aching and my butt was numb (from sitting on the floor). I managed to stay for a couple of hours, all the while becoming more and more impressed with their patience and strength.
A few days later I found myself once again sitting on a mat, this time using a knife to strip off the green leafy part from the individual strands of a coconut palm. Once peeled you are left with the straight, stiff center. Fasten enough of these together and you now have a broom. When I first saw these brooms I wasn’t overly impressed. After an entire day of helping; fingers and butt becoming sore, I realized just how much work went into their creation. Sera was nice enough to give me one of the brooms we made. Of course after all that work I can’t every imagine actually using the broom, God forbid it should get ruined!
The best part of these days was talking with the locals. As I sat with Sera and Grandma making brooms (we tended to call the woman elders in Sera & Freddie's family Grandma), Sera and I discussed the different ways of Fijians and Americans. When I asked how they decided where to build their house, the answer was obvious, their house was close to both her mother’s and Freddie’s (her husband) mother’s house. This way they could help take care of them as they got older. Of course she wanted to know what happens with the ‘elders’ in America. She was especially interested because it seemed so strange to her (and everyone) when we initially explained how far away Chris lived from his parents (and that this distance was common for a lot of families). They had no idea that the two coasts of America were over 3,000 miles apart! I found it difficult explaining elder homes / care centers to someone from a culture where the family unit fully looks after each other, where family values are so deeply ingrained.
It was just a few days prior when somehow the topic of homeless people had come up with another local, who was visiting us aboard Billabong. I doubt I’ll ever forget the confused look on his face as he asked, “Where are their families?” ... he couldn't even comprehend the idea of someone living without a home, because of course their family would take care of them. Chris and I didn’t have an answer.
Some conversations were quite humorous. One day we were talking about coconuts; Chris is really into his coconut trees, amazed by the whole process, the different types of coconuts, and their various uses. It seems he’s always asking questions and coconut hunting. While discussing coconuts with a few of the locals, he happened to mention that prior to cruising he’d never really realized what a real coconut looked like (with husk and all, not just the round brown-black ball w/ ‘eyes’). You should’ve seen all the weird looks he got, how could anyone not know what a coconut looks like? Of course we then felt obligated to explain that in America coconut trees didn’t just grow in abundance, and in fact there are actually places where people plant the tree for decoration, rather then food!!! There was quite a bit of laughter at that one!
I spent a lot of my village time trying to learn a few Fijian words. I discovered I can do about two words a day, as long as I keep using them in a sentence. Everyone in the village loved it when any of the Palagi’s would use a Fijian word. They not only got a good laugh (which wasn’t entirely encouraging when you’re the one trying to get it right!), but also thought it was special and respectful that we were trying so hard. The only problem with saying anything in Fijian, is that the Grandma’s and the smaller children seemed to think that meant you spoke fluent Fijian, and the next thing I knew they’d be talking a mile a minute to me (in Fijian), while I just smiled and said “Io” (yes) a lot! Luckily I never agreed to anything that got me in trouble!!! Sera knew I was trying to learn new words, so she would tell me the Fijian word for objects all the time. One day we were sitting around in her house (having a rest, as they like to say), and Little Freddie brought me a pillow. Sera says to me (or at least what I heard was), “Fijians are Loco-loco”. I was dumbfounded for a good minute, is she really telling me Fijians are crazy? After some stammering and repeating, I finally figured out she was telling me that in Fijian pillow is locoloco. I then just had to explain why I was so confused, I told her that in Spanish the word loco means crazy and that I thought she was telling me they were crazy! She had a good laugh, and when I came into the village the next day it seemed EVERYONE in the village knew about the Loco loco Fijians!
We also tried to visit Vani, Sera's sister, everyday. Vani is only twenty-three and has spent the last seven years confined to bed. Her family says she has arthritis and that is why she can't walk and can barely sit up, but after our first visit we think she more likely has something like M.S. She has a brilliant, perfect smile and speaks outstanding English. She's filled with energy and spirit despite her condition. She looked forward to our daily visit and many times would write us notes, which her mother would deliver to us. You really start to get a feel for the isolation of the village when talking to Vani and her family about her condition. We learned that a doctor had been to see her ... seven years ago. It sounds as if he basically diagnosed her with arthritis and then disappeared. Vani is the only one in her village with this severe condition and prior to a cruising couple's visit the previous year she had thought she "was the only one in the world with this condition". Due to lack of knowledge & medical facilities she is confined to bed 24 hours a day. Our guess is that if she had access to decent medical she would probably be mobile, even if disabled. We racked our brains for a way to build some type of wheel chair, but just didn't have the right materials. We also weren't a hundred percent sure she would've every used the chair ... one Saturday we offered to move her out to the play field, where she could lay on a mat w/ pillows and visit with Julie and I while watching the games. She didn't want to ... talking with her later we determined she was part scared and part embarrassed, in her house & bed she at least felt 'safe'.
With so much going on everyday it seemed like a blink of an eye and before we knew it two weeks had gone by. Wanting to give something back to the village we racked our brains and decided on a photo/visitor's book. Everyone in the village loved getting their photo taken, and then looking at the picture on the camera's viewfinder. We couldn't possible print a picture for everyone, and fearing that we'd leave someone out, decided that a serious of collages would be best. Chris then suggest we put the pictures into a three ringed binder, add paper, and turn it into a visitor's book that future cruisers could add to. Chris presented the loloma (gift) to the village during Church. After Church as we went around visiting with various families, Chris grabbed the book and walked it around the village to make sure they understood what it was. People excitedly gathered around the book laughing and pointing at the pictures. We had made a huge attempt to ensure that the majority of people were included, and from the smiling faces I think we were successful!
On Tuesday (August 16th) we went in with Shadowfax to say goodbye. We walked to every house giving hugs and handshakes. We then joined everyone for a final playtime before heading back to the boats. There were quite a few tears and many solemn faces, this was a hard place to leave. To make matters worse we also had to say goodbye to Shadowfax, our buddy boat for the last two months. We hoped to hook up again with them on the west side of Fiji, but weren't sure of the timing, and if we missed them, then this would be our last goodbye. Shadowfax would be returning to NZ, while we would be heading north towards the Marshall Islands.
Before leaving on Wednesday morning, Chris and I went in quickly to pick up a gift from Sera - she had woven us a small mat with Billabong woven in the center in black voivoi. While visiting with Sera and her family, Shadowfax pulled anchor, sounding their air horn for a final goodbye. We saw a lot of people coming out of their homes, waving shirts and rags into the air, tears flowing. Many of them grabbed mirrors and used the sun to send reflected flashes out to Shadowfax. Shortly after, Chris and I gave a few final hugs ... I practically had to man handled one of the Grandmas in order to get her to let go of me. On the bright side, since we were heading to the Marshall's, we would be returning to Fiji the following year and we promised to visit Naviqiri again. At this point everyone was telling us that we should build a home in their village, some place we could come and visit and bring our own families to ... they had just about picked the build site and Sera had already offered to take care of the house while we were away. It is something that we are seriously thinking about!
As we pulled anchored, we too sounded our air horn. We could see some people on the beach, so we frantically waved our own clothing into the air to say goodbye. Chris got out a mirror and reflected signals back to the village. It took us about two hours to get out of eye sight of Naviqiri Village, and during that entire two hours they were continuously reflecting the sun to us off of their mirrors ... and Chris right back to them.
We are unbelievable lucky to have had such a terrific experience ... I doubt they know how much they have influenced Chris and I. I truly believe that they have sparked a positive change in Chris and I, and I only hope that we could hold onto that spark.